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So me and my boyfriend were kissing yesterday. I gave him a blowjob. Then he wiped his dick with a tissue paper. After a few minutes he rubbed my outer vaginal area with one of his fingers . According to my period tracker app, I am going to be ovulating within a day. Now my question is, can I get pregnant?  I'm scared as hell and feeling paranoid as well. 

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If you're adult and mature enough to engage in sexual activity you are certainly adult and mature enough to educate yourself.

Make an appointment at a clinic to get information and reliable birth control including condoms for your boyfriend. Have him come with you to the appointment. I had my boyfriend come with me.

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1 hour ago, Emily Suzanne said:

So me and my boyfriend were kissing yesterday. I gave him a blowjob. Then he wiped his dick with a tissue paper. After a few minutes he rubbed my outer vaginal area with one of his fingers . According to my period tracker app, I am going to be ovulating within a day. Now my question is, can I get pregnant?  I'm scared as hell and feeling paranoid as well. 

Go to your pharmacy and talk to the pharmacist about plan B. Also make an appt with a clinic/doctor to get an exam as well as talk about appropriate contraception and STD protection. You can plenty of STDs from oral. 

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10 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Go to your pharmacy and talk to the pharmacist about plan B. Also make an appt with a clinic/doctor to get an exam as well as talk about appropriate contraception and STD protection. You can plenty of STDs from oral. 

Thanks a lot. Can you please tell me the chance of getting pregnant? I have always been careful but yesterday was pretty different for some reasons. My boyfriend said he will support me no matter what but right now I'm terrified because my family is quite strict... 

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32 minutes ago, boltnrun said:

If you're adult and mature enough to engage in sexual activity you are certainly adult and mature enough to educate yourself.

Make an appointment at a clinic to get information and reliable birth control including condoms for your boyfriend. Have him come with you to the appointment. I had my boyfriend come with me.

Thanks a lot :") I have read on internet that the chance of getting pregnant is low my I am scared as ***. 

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Call the free clinic or a clinic that offers very low cost or free care (think of the one whose name begins with "P.P.") on Monday and ask them your question. Then schedule an appointment. They will not notify your parents. 

Stop engaging in sexual behavior until you make the call.

Are you legally an adult? Where are you and your boyfriend having sex? At his house?

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18 minutes ago, Emily Suzanne said:

Thanks a lot. Can you please tell me the chance of getting pregnant? I have always been careful but yesterday was pretty different for some reasons. My boyfriend said he will support me no matter what but right now I'm terrified because my family is quite strict... 

Nobody here is a doctor, but most of us are smart enough to know the odds are really slim that you can get pregnant doing what you did.  You really need some education on how things work and if you are old enough to have sex you are old enough to be educated.  Smarten up, dont play with fire, which is what you were doing.  Get some reliable birth control.  Get your doctor to prescribe the pill and educate you.

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It's very unlikely.  I was on BC before I had intercourse to help with painful period cramps but when I was with my boyfriend[s] and still a virgin I was very very careful never to come in contact like that where there was any risk of getting pregnant.  I never did and never had a scare.  Things don't happen unless you want them to so if you think you do want to have intercourse with him then get on BC.  If not be as sexual as you want -I was- while knowing the right way to stay safe - it's really not that difficult not to have your vagina come in contact with his sperm.

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Well yes the chance is low but then again some weird things have happened. Because we're just strangers on the Internet and no doctors, I think you would be better off to speak to a doctor, nurse or at least a pharmacist. Just see what they advise you. Taking "the morning after" pill is also an option  if you're really worried. 

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Short answer, no.

But if you're this scared and are making mistakes, then perhaps you're not ready for sex.

Having any kind of sexual interaction means that there will always be a chance of pregnancy, no matter how small.

If you're touching one another and there is body fluids involved, it's a minute possibility, but nothing is impossible.

I mean, even having sex with a condom on, people still get pregnant.

Outweigh the risks involved and do what you need to in order to prevent pregnancy, every time you're intimate.

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On 1/1/2021 at 6:37 AM, Emily Suzanne said:

So me and my boyfriend were kissing yesterday. I gave him a blowjob. Then he wiped his *** with a tissue paper. After a few minutes he rubbed my outer vaginal area with one of his fingers . According to my period tracker app, I am going to be ovulating within a day. Now my question is, can I get pregnant?  I'm scared as hell and feeling paranoid as well. 

Well, what's the verdict? Are you pregnant?

Also, I'm being sarcastic, because I know you're not.  😉   Seriously though, have you gotten on birth control? Hope you did that already.

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On 1/1/2021 at 11:36 AM, MissCanuck said:

I was about to ask the same thing. 

 

On 1/1/2021 at 10:08 AM, Hollyj said:

How old are you?

I'm very curious also. I'm 36 but I remember being young and terrified of pregnancy.

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