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So my boyfriend of 7 years left his phone behind and things have been very shady when it comes to him for a good month now. So I took the opportunity to check his phone . And not only is he cheating on me with one person but at least 3 different chicks and a few of them have boyfriend s and one of their boyfriend s is my boyfriend's friend. Wow wow I'm like think ing to myself I knew something was up . So of course I confronted him and he says that it's not what it looks like. He's not cheating that I'm crazy that I'm pushing him away .he never did tell me the truth I seen it for my eyes anyways. But I'm hurt what to do 

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10 minutes ago, Cheating boyfrien said:

of course I confronted him and he says that it's not what it looks like. He's not cheating that I'm crazy 

Sorry to hear this. Sounds like your instincts were correct and you have enough info to dump him.  Believe your own gut feeling and your own eyes, not gaslighting lies.

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Sorry to hear you are going through this, especially during these challenging times. Better to find out now than waste many more years on this guy.  I know of several (married) people who cheat.  Once they start with one, more come into the fold and the lies they spin would blow your mind.  Also realize it is not you, it’s them.  You are very likely neither the first person he has cheated on, nor will you be the last.

 

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Gaslighting for sure. That's a jerka$$ move. If  I were you I would never have confronted him...yet. I would have contacted his friend with the proof and told him. I would have copied all the text messages and contact those BFs that are being cheated on. And then let the S#$%storm begin with you kicking him to the curb.

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