boobasil20 8 Posted January 25 Author Share Posted January 25 3 hours ago, boltnrun said: It's not likely he "wants a future" with someone he dated for a month two years ago. I would bet he's not obsessing over those few dates or imagining himself married to someone from his distant past who he wasn't even in a relationship with. We tend to romanticize the past when our present is dissatisfying and our future looks bleak. So instead of pretending this man is the answer, how about making changes to your life to make it more satisfying? Thank you boltnrun ! yes I am focusing on my career taking my registration exams for my career , I became a vegan ! Im already feeling healthier and better about my body and just loving just being me and discovering what I want for me to be happy Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boobasil20 8 Posted February 13 Author Share Posted February 13 update- we talked on pinterest only communication avenue when I googled him he has kind of a generic name but I was able to find him remembering the original handle of the first email address he gave me to contact him It was wonderful being able to bridge a gap and find some closure. he told me he was in a serious relationship and that he loves his girlfriend immensely and all he wants from me is friendship but then we talked about all the wonderful memories we shared he apologized for shutting me out and that he thinks about me often and I said I respect that he communicated his feelings and such we live an hour apart he told me a great story about how he climbed a mountain and had a vision etc and it was like we had not stopped talking ever and kisses and such and wished him a good weekend and then he said text me any time and I said the same however I don’t think we will ever talk again. generally a good ending though. thanks everyone for your help 1 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,799 Posted February 13 Share Posted February 13 On 12/3/2020 at 1:31 AM, boobasil20 said: 1 month - whilrwind romance Sorry this happened. It seems like he was having a fling with you and he's been in a long term relationship all along. Now that you have answers, move forward. Delete and block him from all your social media and messaging apps. Get on some quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jibralta 1,240 Posted February 13 Share Posted February 13 Glad you've found some closure! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boobasil20 8 Posted February 13 Author Share Posted February 13 6 hours ago, Jibralta said: Glad you've found some closure! thanks not easy but actually yes pretty much the answer I was looking for . 🙂 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boobasil20 8 Posted February 22 Author Share Posted February 22 hmmm not sure how to say this or what to do or how to respond... I got a valentines day present from my ex via amazon delivery! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,799 Posted February 22 Share Posted February 22 On 12/10/2020 at 3:40 PM, boobasil20 said: He has blocked me everywhere and I honestly don’t remember anyone or anywhere to find him and tell him how much I care Is he in a relationship? What did he send you? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boobasil20 8 Posted February 23 Author Share Posted February 23 17 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Is he in a relationship? What did he send you? it is a small box wrapped in the most beautiful bright pink wrapping ... the card says - ‘it’s time to move on , I wish you all the best... ...????? what is the ... ????? I can’t take this it never ever ends. why can’t we just have closure really though , Im good. Im used to constantly feeling this way im not sad or anything just happy that I got to meet this person! if he says move on - huh ? Im dumbfounded why would he out 3 dots at the end of that ?! the box is so well wrapped I can’t open it i mean too afraid. thanks guys Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,799 Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 5 hours ago, boobasil20 said: The box is so well wrapped I can’t open it i mean too afraid. thanks guys It's from Amazon? Return it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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