Hollyj 1,619 Posted November 30, 2020 Share Posted November 30, 2020 Friends do not treat friends like this. He is a horrific partner, friend and parent. This guy is bottom of the barrel! Eliza, how could you have any respect for someone who treated their child and partner in such a disrespectful manner. This guy is such a parasite! . What was attractive about him? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
catfeeder 1,998 Posted December 1, 2020 Share Posted December 1, 2020 Boyfriend keeps losing jobs There are no judges or juries in our love lives, so nobody else gets a vote. That's exactly why it's up to us and our maturity to recognize and separate our emotions from our behavior. It's possible to love someone from far away--with room to allow our best interests to check our emotions. This is not a moral finger-wag, it's practical. It's encouragement to allow your private vision for your own future to prevail. Is this guy and his behavior what you envision for your future? You can't change or 'fix' the guy, so fix your vision, instead. You will thank yourself later. Head high. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
abitbroken 1,309 Posted December 1, 2020 Share Posted December 1, 2020 He blocked me and told me I would never see him or his son again and that he lost every ounce of love for me. This is the best thing for you because you won't be tempted to contact him Quote Link to post Share on other sites
abitbroken 1,309 Posted December 1, 2020 Share Posted December 1, 2020 I think I was also really cruel too by essentially kicking them both out. I meant it as a “if you’re going to just ignore me, then leave” kind of thing but it came out wrong and as soon as I said it, it was like he just totally exploded and I didn’t even have time to say anything else. It was kind to YOU. The kid has somewhere to go -- he has a mother who he lives with all week long and she can surely keep him over the weekends until your ex figures out his living situation. The child is not homeless by any stretch. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boltnrun 1,458 Posted December 1, 2020 Share Posted December 1, 2020 He'll come back once he feels you've been sufficiently punished and after you beg and cry a bit longer. Then he'll know he has the upper hand and will be assured you'll pay for everything with no more complaints because you fear losing him again. Don't let that scenario play out. This man is taking advantage of you and you've been letting him. Don’t allow it any longer. You're better off and soon you'll realize it. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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