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As I went into his arms, he disappeared and I woke up sobbing. Again, I don't know what to believe but I think my Dad showed up to escort my Mom. *Or, because I don't know any different I CHOOSE to believe

 

I told my brother about the dream and didn't prompt him in any way about my sense that Mom was declining or how I interpreted the timing of my Dad finally showing up in a dream. Unsolicited, tears started streaming down his face. Without saying a word his interpretation was the same as mine.

 

My mom had this friend named Janet, who I knew since birth. When we were little kids, my mom would visit her at the beach and my sister and I would play with her son, who was about our age.

 

We sort of lost touch with them when I was about 12. We moved, my mom was acting weird... lots of stuff was going on.

 

That was a difficult time in my life. I was really struggling.

 

It was around that time that I had two very significant dreams... The details are hazy, 30 years on. I have them both written down somewhere... But she was in both of them, and her presence there was pivotal. It was almost like she was handing me strength, and I took it.

 

I didn't see her again until my grandmother died, in 2001. I was 24. She came to the wake, and to our house afterwards. It was the first time I'd seen her in 12 years and I was really struck by her. She was quiet and luminous and... kind of joyful.

 

She and my mom kept in touch after that.

 

A couple years later, Janet got stomach cancer. She fought it, but it eventually overtook her. The last time I saw her was on my 30th birthday.

 

A couple months after that, she was bedridden. My mom went to visit her once. She planned to go again. One night, I actually pushed her to go, but she didn't. And that night, in my dreams, I heard her husband, who I barely knew, cry out, "You don't know what it's like to lose your life partner!!" It woke me up.

 

That night, when my mom got home, she had a message from him. Janet had died.

 

Three years later, I had a dream. Janet was standing behind my mother. She put her hands on my mother's shoulders, smiled at me, and said, "Five years."

 

I woke up convinced that my mother was going to die in five years!

 

Well, ten years have passed since then. She is still ok. But Oh Lord! What a scare that gave me!

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My mom had this friend named Janet, who I knew since birth. When we were little kids, my mom would visit her at the beach and my sister and I would play with her son, who was about our age.

 

We sort of lost touch with them when I was about 12. We moved, my mom was acting weird... lots of stuff was going on.

 

That was a difficult time in my life. I was really struggling.

 

It was around that time that I had two very significant dreams... The details are hazy, 30 years on. I have them both written down somewhere... But she was in both of them, and her presence there was pivotal. It was almost like she was handing me strength, and I took it.

 

I didn't see her again until my grandmother died, in 2001. I was 24. She came to the wake, and to our house afterwards. It was the first time I'd seen her in 12 years and I was really struck by her. She was quiet and luminous and... kind of joyful.

 

She and my mom kept in touch after that.

 

A couple years later, Janet got stomach cancer. She fought it, but it eventually overtook her. The last time I saw her was on my 30th birthday.

 

A couple months after that, she was bedridden. My mom went to visit her once. She planned to go again. One night, I actually pushed her to go, but she didn't. And that night, in my dreams, I heard her husband, who I barely knew, cry out, "You don't know what it's like to lose your life partner!!" It woke me up.

 

That night, when my mom got home, she had a message from him. Janet had died.

 

Three years later, I had a dream. Janet was standing behind my mother. She put her hands on my mother's shoulders, smiled at me, and said, "Five years."

 

I woke up convinced that my mother was going to die in five years!

 

Well, ten years have passed since then. She is still ok. But Oh Lord! What a scare that gave me!

 

oh wow jibs that has taken my breath away ...and yes that would have left anyone thinking what you thought ....did anything actually happen after 5 years regarding any part of your life or your mums ... At any rate I am obviously so so glad it wasn't a prediction .

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oh wow jibs that has taken my breath away ...and yes that would have left anyone thinking what you thought ....did anything actually happen after 5 years regarding any part of your life or your mums ... At any rate I am obviously so so glad it wasn't a prediction .

 

Well, she turned 70 that year. My stepfather rented a huge, gorgeous house by the beach in Hilton Head, SC and invited her close friends and family to spend the week. I think there were 13 of us. It was a great time.

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Well it all sounds wonderful ....thank God ..... I do wonder what it was all about though .

 

To be honest, I still worry about it sometimes.... But you know, she was never a harbinger of sadness or pain.

 

If she were still alive, I think she would have been invited for my mom's birthday. Maybe she was there in spirit :)

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To be honest, I still worry about it sometimes.... But you know, she was never a harbinger of sadness or pain.

 

If she were still alive, I think she would have been invited for my mom's birthday. Maybe she was there in spirit :)

 

Oh no I wouldn't worry jibs honestly ..... the thing is she gave you strength when you needed it . Not only that but spirit doesn't tend to , well as you said , be the harbinger of sadness or pain ..that is banshee and hellhound material ...

I thought it strange to start with if it was a warning ..to put that on you 5 years before a * something * you have no clue of and are left to piece it together and the obvious been your mum as she was stood behind your mum ...spirit just doesn't do that and Janet most certainly doesn't sound like a person who then would mess with your head in that way ....so no ...while I 100% admit I don't know why she said 5 years , what I am certain of is that you should not worry ...

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