lostandhurt Posted December 29, 2020 Share Posted December 29, 2020 Ouch! That absolutely sucks. I have been there myself where everything was going wonderfully and then "we should just be friends" I am pretty good at trusting my instincts and I knew there was more to it and I was right. Some guy she had dated six months earlier had heard she was dating someone new and came back wanting to try again. They had history so I got the boot. If things were actually going really well then she may have met someone else she wanted to date. She did say she is a one at a time girl right? In the end (and I know this doesn't make it any easier) it doesn't really matter why it happened, just that it did. Accepting that she has made a choice and that choice is no longer you is hard but it is the most healthy for you. As the song says "There aint no changing a made up mind" I am really sorry it didn't work out long term as I know just how hard it is to meet someone and have it click like you want it to. I wish I had some magical words that would make this easier but there just aren't any. All I can say is lick your wounds, spruce up your profile and get back out there. Just don't hold what happened here against anyone new you might meet. There are times when you think it is best to not even try so you can avoid this kind of hurt but you need to realize you met her and others so you have had success, you just haven't met who you are supposed to be with YET. Keep posting Lost Link to comment
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