Wiseman2 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 Ok, so is communicating better. This is the key. Not "more" communication, it's better communication. If someone were "multitasking" while I was trying to talk with them, I would walk right out the door. Stop "multitasking", it's very rude and distracting. Do you like talking at someone with their minds, hands, eyes, etc. elsewhere? That is not communication, this is not multitasking, it is shutting out, deprioritizing, half ignoring. You see, you Both have to try, not just him. Not just him talking More, when that never works. Focus on quality time, quality communication. Couples therapy is kind of a silly idea, when you want to multitask, and he is more reflective and pensive. Particularly if you have one foot out the door so much so that you are thinking about moving back home. I multitask and talk as I’m working. I listen as well and if it ever gets serious I would stop what I’m doing and sit to chat with him. Link to comment
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