An update on my saga

[LaHermes]

Very well put, Dalesboy.

 

You see, OP, you said at outset:

 

"......her behaviour is driving me absolutely bonkers, and is really putting me off relationships altogether."

 

In order to preserve your own sanity OP I really think you should bring this "relationship" to an end.

[MissCanuck]

I don't have a 'hero narrative', and that kind of remark is very judgmental.

 

Indeed it is. I absolutely judge people who do what you're doing.

 

That's what happens when you engage in judge-worthy behaviour, dude.

[boltnrun]

I presume you didn't like the responses, but I doubt anyone posts on here with the goal of telling OPs what they want to hear.

 

This woman comes with drama. You already know this.

 

People don't do anything unless they are getting something out of it. You call yourself "kind and compassionate" so I guess you like the dynamic between you and this woman because it makes you feel that way.

 

So, as I said earlier, don't pretend to be shocked when she creates drama because you are choosing to continue.

[HeartGoesOn]

Thread has run its course...Closed.