Batya33 Posted July 25, 2020 Share Posted July 25, 2020 I do feel there reciprocity. But I feel like I need an insanity check... he has unmatched me on bumble. Deleted accounts still show the convo but our convo has completely disappeared which is how I know he unmatched. My gut and instincts are just telling me all this is a bit shady. We’re not exclusive so if he is updating his profile, why would he feel the need to hide it? We agreed on doing something Saturday but have not set a time yet. I don’t think I’m going to reach out for a time and let him come to me for that It's not shady an there's nothing confusing. He may have decided not to see you again (or not) -until there's a time set there is no next date. He may have unmatched you because he met you in person. Here is all you know -you've seen this guy a few times. You don't have another date set at this point. That means there is no next date. If he reaches out to you in the future to plan a date then you will know he wants another date with you. Till then move on. I wouldn't try to analyze what he has done or not done online. Just stick to the basic facts - right now there is no next date. He probably should after 3 dates reach out even if he doesn't wish to see you again but to me anyway 3 dates (with the first being a first meet -right?) it's ok not to do the whole "you're amazing but not for me, wish you well" stuff. Link to comment
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