I want my ex back but she is engaged?!? Help!

[Dr Whom]

Update:

 

She took down all her engagement pictures on Facebook so I assume she is done with that guy...she then texted me with a “hey what’s up” and began to tell me she was sad. She would not tell me the reason why( she doesn’t know that I know about this guy). I asked her to get together and she said I don’t know. Anything more than a breadcrumb here or thoughts on how to proceed?

[abitbroken]

Update:

 

She took down all her engagement pictures on Facebook so I assume she is done with that guy...she then texted me with a “hey what’s up” and began to tell me she was sad. She would not tell me the reason why( she doesn’t know that I know about this guy). I asked her to get together and she said I don’t know. Anything more than a breadcrumb here or thoughts on how to proceed?

 

Forget about her. You are just a rebound. You are someone that she knows she can walk all over you and are just a time passer. She is not truly interested in you. Go find someone who is

[Wiseman2]

It sounds like you want to rekindle things? Or are you just curious as to what she wants? So far it seems she just wants a shoulder to cry on. The ball is in her court as far as getting together, so pull back and don't be her therapist.

she then texted me with a “hey what’s up” and began to tell me she was sad. She would not tell me the reason why( she doesn’t know that I know about this guy). I asked her to get together and she said I don’t know.

[Dr Whom]

More curious I think...i already have pulled back.

[boltnrun]

Yeah...it feels like I was a rebound between her ex fiancé and new fiancé. There was almost no gap in between. What is love?

 

So now you could be a rebound between this most recent fiancé and whoever is going to be her next "new" fiancé.

 

Yeah, I wouldn't sign up for that.