abitbroken Posted May 11, 2020 Share Posted May 11, 2020 Eskimo hasn’t said that she has done anything other than be controlling with OCD tendencies. You are all assuming that she has done something really awful to get this response response from Eskimo’s wife. There has been nothing from Eskimo to suggest that. We are all not the same in our personalities. Some are a little different. Yes if SIL is overbearing, then the twin brother needs to chat with her. We are taught in Kindergarten to get along and be resilient. As far as the last line, i was taught that too, but when someone is repeatedly a bully, my parents taught me to stop including them and walk away and find other friends. Being controlling IS enough of a problem. My sister ruined Easter one year. She had this vision that the room would be quiet, all focus on my parents when they unwrapped something that said they were going to have a grandkid. (not to mention Easter isn't a "present" holiday so there would be normal time for this to happen). A neighbor knocked at the door, someone was in the bathroom, I apparently wasn't sitting in the "right seat". My dad had tucked it away in the bedroom because no one else got gifts and he didn't want the little kids to wonder where their presents were. We had NO idea that this was going to happen. She was already mad at me because i pet her dog before saying hi to my parents (the dog was outside...my parents were in the house) so she already had her claws out. She mad everyone feel bad because she didn't have total control. My sister can make things very stressful if things aren't "just so" and if she doesn't have total control Link to comment
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