sherms Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 My boyfriend (M15) and I (F15) have only been together for a few weeks but he has not texted me in 5 days. We just went out on Valentine's Day and then he said he loved me. We have known each other for a while before we started going out. We texted for a few days after Valentine's day but it felt like I was dragging him along in the conversation and it also felt dry and like he did not really want to talk to me. I started the last conversation and now it has been 5 days, what should I do? I could text him but I am worried that he does not want to talk to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 Valentine's Day was 9 days ago. How many times have you seen him in person since then? How often do you two see one another? Do you go to the same school? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sherms Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 I do not go to school with him so zero times since then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 I do not go to school with him so zero times since then. How did you meet him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sherms Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 We used to do a sport together but I quit the sport. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 If you have to drag him along in a conversation that is unenthusiastic, then perhaps he's not that interested in you with all due respect. Some people are not into texting regularly despite this cell phone age. I know some people in my life who don't want to bother texting relentlessly back 'n forth. They don't like it and often times texting is a ball 'n chain instead of a joy. Arrange talking to him in person and see where he's at and ask him what he thinks about texting you regularly. If he's not the type of guy you wish to date, then let him go. If it's been 5 days, don't pester and bother him. He's obviously not invested in the new relationship. I'd let him go and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 What happened on the date? Are you afraid you got too intimate, then he just disappeared?My boyfriend (M15) and I (F15) have only been together for a few weeks but he has not texted me in 5 days. We just went out on Valentine's Day and then he said he loved me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loyal Posted February 25, 2020 Share Posted February 25, 2020 Well, you're 15. So there's that. Focus on school and friendships. He is acting like a normals 15 year old. You should too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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