Will I ever get to date someone or even get laid?

[SherrySher]

Dude -- seriously, if you want a quality woman, stop stashing weed. Women like interesting men -- men who have interests in things besides marijuana and clubs. A guy who volunteers, has interests, is always trying to learn something new may be a dud at the bar, but he will be meeting the quality women in other places because women have a reason to talk to him. And forget "THE APPROACH" -- just go get some interests and women and be a quality person and women will notice. And you will feel more confident because you like yourself. Women with jobs in a professional setting won't risk dating someone whose interest is drugs.

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This!!

She has a huge point. Most women would never take an interest in a man who was even remotely involved with drugs. Guys who hang out at clubs normally haven't matured or don't have much else going on.

 

If you want a decent, quality woman, you will have to change the scene and become a better man. It is very true, that if you have interests or education, it will make you much more noticeable.

It's not always about looks. Women find men who are well read, educated, interesting, funny and sincere,...very attractive.

 

If all you have to go on is weed and clubs and hanging out, well, it's not looking good.

[Wiseman2]

Exactly. Get off the weed and over to the gym. Start dressing better, eating better and improve your grooming. Learn to speak more eloquently. Stop hanging out with a pack of wannebe pickup artists at clubs gawking at women feeling entitled to sex.

you don't have to be a rocket scientist to realize that having a healthier lifestyle would go a long way in helping out.

[NXSWarrior]

Thanks for your suggestions guys. Will definitely take that into consideration.