Will she come back

[lost39-]

This hurts so much. Surely should be getting better by now. I have heard of z broken heart but I genuinely feel mine is. Feel sick all the time and cant eat. Wake up at stupid o'clock! How long will this last for?

Feel like it all far too consuming on my tiny soul

[lost39-]

I wonder what she currently feels? What would her emotions be? We were together 20 years . surely she must feel something?

Are there any dumpers on here that can fill me in pls.

Thanks

[Wiseman2]

Why not get an evaluation from a doctor MD and get a referral to a therapist? Don't go it alone especially with such a severe reaction.

Feel sick all the time and cant eat. Wake up at stupid o'clock! How long will this last for?

[lost39-]

I dont beleive they can cure a broken heart😔

[Wiseman2]

Ironically not getting treated for depression, anxiety, etc can cause a broken heart because a partner can not carry someone along who is morbidly depressed and won't follow up. regularly with doctors/therapist to sustain better mental health.

I dont beleive they can cure a broken heart😔

[boltnrun]

You refuse to end contact. This is a main reason why you aren't feeling any better.

 

Ask her to stop the daily texts. I know, you don't want her to stop. But if you don't ask her to stop you can't wonder why you still feel awful.

[lost39-]

Why do you think she still contacts me though?

[Wiseman2]

Parents have to communicate. Do not focus on winning her back, focus on improving your life, your health and parenting the best way you can.

Im in our jointly mortgaged house with our 16 yr old daughter and she rents with our 20 yr old. Have been in daily contact since.

[lost39-]

Thank you. This site has literally saved me. It's just so bloody hard