jumpman Posted January 26, 2020 Share Posted January 26, 2020 Hi everyone, I’ve not used this site for a good few years now and the last time I did use it the help I got from everyone was amazing and helped me a lot! So I’m a 41 year old male and I’m dating a 29year old female we have been dating about 5months now and things are going well, the only problem I have is she seems very guarded with her feelings towards me she did have a bit of a bad previous relationship and her last partner and father of her two kids used to abuse her and I can kinda understand why she’s cautious about a new relationship I haven’t met the kids yet and I see that as a good thing for now but I find it very hard to see just how she is feeling towards me, she did ask me to meet all her family Boxing Day for a party and I went and got on with everyone really well so obviously I see that as a good thing that she wanted me to meet the family! I think I’m finding it strange as my last two relationships have been pretty full on and the girls always made it very clear to me that they were happy with me! Also both were very touchy feely towards me and my current partner will cuddle up to me but that’s all she keeps her hands to herself! I know I’m probably sounding very clingy but I’m really not like that but I would like some reassurance that it’s going in the right way! Do any of you have any advice to how I should handle it? Should I just carry on as it is as it is early stages still or should I subtly bring it up in conversation as it is on my mind? I don’t wanna scare her off as I do really like her and can see a future maybe it’s just a shock to me as I’m not used to things progressing this slowly! 😊 Link to comment
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