Psykadelicio Posted January 6, 2020 Share Posted January 6, 2020 Last summer I had a fling with a guy I've known for three years. It was fun, and lasted five days before I went back home. Lots of sex and affection, acting all 'in love', infatuated, couple like while together. We live in seperate countries, so we both knew it was what it was. He's been wanting to meet me since, and now, six months later, I went to visit him for 6 days.. It started out great, almost where we left off. The first two days. Then day 3 I didn't want sex because my vagina was hurting from all the penetration. He spooned me all night. The next day his mood was a bit off, he got up early with no morning cuddles. He doesn't really like to cuddle, but I do, so he does that for me. Later, I wasn't in the mood to have sex, I was full of food, and felt gassy. I didn't tell him this, as I was slightly embarrassed. I just kinda ignored his advances. Day after that again, he is still sulking. He got up early again. If I tried to hug him. He would pull away or push me away. He said I was a tease, and he was upset he wasn't getting sex, and that he wouldn't chase me to get what he wants. He wasn't going to have sex with me unless I pursued him. So how I see it, first he maybe feels hurt from rejection? Then I get hurt from him rejecting me and my advances again. So the last two days we were together, we hardly spoke, he seemed annoyed by me, blaming his headache and frustration on the fact he hadn't cum in a couple of days. So me not throwing myself at him is a turn off for him? And his behaviour and his rejection of me is a total turn off for me. The last 24 hours couldn't have gone by any slower. This last morning together, he gets out of bed at 6 in the freaking morning, doesn't acknowledge me when I come up and make him tea. He just stares into his phone. I go for a walk, come back, same thing. I let him be, and just went to sleep for the remaining hour before I had to leave. He barely gave me a hug before I left, and just said "talk to you later". What the ?? Why the 'sudden' change in behaviour? Why all hugs and kisses, and then as soon as I turn down sex one night his attitude changes? I also know he 'sees' other women, I knew this before we hooked up last summer, he's somewhat of a womaniser. Which is fine, because I have no romantic feelings for him, and no expectations of entering a new relationship, so my feelings are not hurt. I'm. Just confused as to his behaviour. From a guys perspective, maybe. What the hell just happened. Why would he suddenly become so cold and distant? Link to comment
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