kathy303 Posted December 26, 2019 Share Posted December 26, 2019 I've been seeing this man who is 10 years older, we used to work together and then he was transferred. He has two kids and has a common law wife who he has always referred to as someone who isn't his wife and said that their relationship has been bad. Now I know that it was wrong, I get this. It's been more than a year now that this has been going on and honestly it's been hurtful. We haven't had sex but we've done other things. We haven't spent time outside of the car or work, and that's something that's hurt me. He's said that he wants to be with me forever, wants to make me happy, has made promises of us being together. Now, the thing is, is that since the summer he's been saying we'll be together soon. And I know I'm not crazy but I know he said we'd be together by Christmas. Now I assumed it would be this year. Clearly we are not. Once again I get to cry away the day and the worst part is that I talked about him to my parents and when they ask me where he is I can't help but feel hurt. I get it if he wants to stay for his kids sake that's fine, let me know so I can move on. I don't get what he gets out of this. My friends said maybe an ego boost, but I don't know. I'm at a breaking point in that he messaged me that he loved me and I don't know if I should reply or not. Should I just ignore him or meet with him and break it off? A while ago I told him that this is hurting me and that I want to be with him and that he clearly has other priorities and he said that he does want to be with me. I don't know what to do other than cry and feel helpless. Link to comment
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