Trimper Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 Hello. I'm 24 years old. I recently moved to a new area after graduating college and starting a new job. In the past I've dated multiple women anywhere from a couple dates to being in two different relationships that lasted over a year. I never really seemed to have an issue meeting women. I have a good job, am told I'm a nice respectful guy, I don't think I'm ugly or anything, but I'm only like 5'5". But that is what it is, some women won't talk to me because of it, for others it's not an issue. I always get asked about why I dont have a girlfriend from friends, family, coworkers, etc. Like I said I don't have trouble meeting women, but the issue comes into play when we start going on dates. I'll get a date or two in, if I'm lucky then I'll pull myself away. Sometimes I don't even get to the date, I actually cancelled a first date a couple days ago. And it's not like I'm sleeping with the women I'm dating and leaving either. I like to take things slower when it comes to sleeping with women, and feel it only should happen when there are mutual feelings aside from a physical attraction. I know this sounds like a stupid issue, but I just can't help it. I don't know why, but I'm just afraid to get committed. I've been ran through the ringer in the last two relationships I had. And I never really talked to anyone about how I can't commit myself. Does anyone have any advice on how to concor my fears so I can stop being as pathetic as I sound on here? Haha. Thank you. Link to comment
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