throbanana Posted December 15, 2019 Share Posted December 15, 2019 Will try to make this not too long. Ex and I broke up about three months ago. We work together still and ultimately end up seeing each other daily, although very briefly. At first, we just really ignored one another, and he blocked me on social media right after. It just got to be weird to me so about a month in, I decided to just send a quick text meant as an olive branch. I didn’t get a response, so I let it go. About a month later, he unblocks me from social media, and later responds to my prior text. Since then, so for about the past month, he has been texting me daily. I have only initiated once. Conversations went from very brief in the beginning, to quite prolonged, sometimes spanning a whole day if we are not working now. Texts range from daily nonsense, to old inside jokes (and new ones), he sends pictures of random stuff in his day and have been getting an increasing number of selfies lately, there’s some teasing and flirting like old times. He has been asking me more questions lately than he did when we were together. We recently both took a test which we recently found out results for. I passed and he failed for a second time. His family also recently sent out a holiday card where he was the only one excluded from it. I was the first person he told/talked to about both things. When he sees me in the hallways now he always stops to say something. If we are in the same room and someone makes a joke or he does he always looks at me to see if I’m laughing. He seems to mimic my actions--if I have my hands in my pockets, so does he. If I change to crossing my arms, so does he. So the update: Last Friday night, he ended up calling me for the first time and we talked for about an hour and a half. The next day he seemed to want to know my dinner plans and I said I didn't have any. We had previously been talking about Cheesecake Factory cheesecake flavors like a week before, and he then asked if I had picked a new flavor to try yet. I said no, and he said if I picked and would share it with him, he'd go with me. So, Saturday night we ended up going to dinner together and sharing dessert. He picked up the bill. After that, the daily texts continued. He called me again last night before bed just to talk for a bit. We were flirting in tonight's conversation it kind of led to me saying to him that if there's anyone else he should let me know since I don't want to make anything weird for him. He responded to me that I have been very nice and that no, he is not in the female arena right now. I have no clue what that means. I guess I’m not sure how to interpret all this. He does have exes as friends, but only speaks to them sporadically. He isn’t a guy that goes out of his way to initiate conversation, let alone talk to people daily or arrange get togethers. I don’t know if I’m something to occupy time or if he is interested again and just going slow. I’m not looking to waste time or energy, so I’d like some input on how to proceed. Thanks! Link to comment
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