AleSomma Posted December 1, 2019 Share Posted December 1, 2019 (stretching the story a lil' bit, but I think some background is needed here) I've been dating a girl from university for more than two months. We met at a concert and we hit it off pretty well. Since we live 2 hours away from each other, however, we agreed on meeting "casually" because our schedules couldn't really mesh up in order to have a steady relationship. I wasn't really satisfied with this agreement but all in all I accepted, considering I'm prioritizing my career right now (finishing my Master's). This past week I received a job offer (starting from January 2020) in the city she lives in. I'm genuinely excited for this new experience and I'm looking forward to moving and starting fresh the new year. Plus, I'll be closer to her. So... on Wednesday I informed her by text of my career advancement (she was incredibly fast at replying and for some reason she started asking a lot of questions about my future .... ??) and we decided we'll see each other next Tuesday for coffee since I'll be in the city to discuss with my university tutor. Now, texting has always been a problem with her. She does text me, but she's freaking erratic and many days can go by without any communication between us. Which is fine for the most part, I'm not a enthusiastic texter myself. After agreeing on our date, we talked for a while and then - point blank - she leaves on read a question I asked her. I haven't contacted her since, nor has she. I really want to clear the air face to face about texting and communicating more, but at the same time I don't wanna act b****y. I require my questions to be answered, my time respected and a little bit of investment in the communication process, so that our relationship can grow. Link to comment
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