Princecoco Posted November 9, 2019 Share Posted November 9, 2019 Hi all, First timer here :) I'm having issues in the between first and second date gap. I met this girl two years ago at a party and we went back to my place (but didn't go all the way). I didn't contact her anymore because I knew she was leaving the country a while later. Now she's back in my country for a masters degree and so I contacted her. She was happy about this and we chatting a fair bit. This Thursday we went for a drink and it was lovely. Very cosy and good conversation. At the end I was thinking when to kiss her while walking towards my car but she told me to wait and kissed me first. For me that kind of felt like a pretty good sign. We chatted a bit the next day (her texts are still enthusiastic) and today I asked her if we could meet up on Wednesday. I got the following message: "Ah, I have a group project working on that evening *smiley with a tear of sweat* ummm can we do the week after? Sorry I'm away this weekend and next so not sure I'll have time to make it *city I live in which is closely* in between." Am I seeing ghosts or is this a bad sign? I know she'll be only coming back on Tuesday so it might be a very busy week, but it always just feels weird when somebody can't make any time for you during the week. I've had these reactions before and it never really worked out after. My gut reaction is to say I can also stop by her city so she doesn't have to do the commuting but that might come off as desperate, I assume. Best reaction is to play it cool, tell her that's fine, leave the ball in her court and continue life? Any thoughts? Just got rejected for a promotion at work yesterday, so my ego is a bit low atm. Hence the doubts Link to comment
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