running4life Posted November 4, 2019 Share Posted November 4, 2019 I'm 28 and I been dating this guy who is 30 for about 4 months. We met at a concert. I went with a group of coworkers. He was the designated driver for his friend whom recognized me from my job. He bought me a beer that night. I talked to his friend about him and she said that he's a great guy and to ask for his number because he shy and would not ask for mine. I asked for his number and we've gone on many dates since then.I learned that he was married for 8 years and has an amazing 8 year old son. He divorced 2 years ago.His ex wife is the first person who he ever became sexually intimate with and vise versa for his ex wife. His ex wife wanted a divorce and left him for a girl. They dated for about a year and then broke up. The divorce was difficult because he lost his house and it was confusing for his son to see his parents divorce and his mother to start dating a girl. Also, his family is religious which made it more challenging. I have kissed him and touched him with the goal of innating to go further, but he doesn't want to go further. It makes him feel uncomfortable. He tends to look down and become silent. I asked him if he's dated since his ex and he said he has. I don't know if he's done anything physical since then. Any feedback on this? Am I being too pushy? Should I give him more time for himself instead of pursing a relationship? Is his ego hurt? Any feedback is appreciated. Link to comment
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