stillhere Posted November 4, 2019 Share Posted November 4, 2019 My ex broke up with me about six months ago and we've been in and out of contact ever since. We recently went through almost two months of NC then started talking every day again, but I suggested we give each other some space so that she could figure out if she wants to get back together or not since she's still apprehensive. She texted me last week that she saw something at the mall that she thought I would like and mailed it to me. We continued NC after that but then two nights ago she drunk texted me on a night out and told me she misses me and hopes I have a good weekend. Last time we had a serious conversation about our relationship, she said she really wants to give me another chance but is afraid of getting hurt again. I decided giving her space would be for the best. I don't know if her buying me something and breaking no contact constantly like this and drunk texting me is a good thing or not. On a side note, I recently found out that both of her brothers are following this guy she's been spending a lot of time with on Instagram. She insists that they're just really good friends (they were friends all throughout college and live near each other) and I believed her because she has a couple guy best friends, but it seems off to me that her brothers are following this guy. I know for certain she still has feelings for me and I highly doubt she would want anything to do with me if she's possibly seeing someone else, but is it possible that she could just be playing me? I don't know what to think of her actions anymore. I'm just confused and feeling like I need to keep my distance to protect myself but also holding onto hope that her actions indicate she still wants to be together and is just hoping for me to continue chasing her. Link to comment
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