LucyJane84 Posted October 13, 2019 Share Posted October 13, 2019 Ive been seeing this guy for a few months and been 'official' for about 3 weeks. He broke up with his ex during the time we were getting to know eachother. They were together for a few years, engaged with 2 children. I dont think it was a bad break up, they werent fighting or anything, he just said he had fallen out of love with her. We became 'official' the day he first spent time with her taking the children out. They hadnt seen eachother in a couple of months as she had taken the children our of the country for a family emergency. When she came home he ended things with her and then they had been split for 2 weeks before the meeting. We work together and i spend a few nights a week at his. We dont go out a huge amount. But we spend quite abit of time together and we text alot when we are apart. He tells me he loves me quite often. Anyway.... he has spent the day with his ex a few times taking the children out to the playground and for lunch. They seem to get along really well still. They had a brief period of no contact. I think about 2 weeks, he broke it first by texting to ask how she and the children were and she replied a few days later. Since then she has text him daily. He always responds. Sometimes instantly, other times when he thinks i dont realise what hes doing. Theyve been saying good morning everyday and asking how eachother is. It only seems like small talk and he doesnt seem to initiate at all, just respond to her. Thats been going on for about a week. They have planned to spend next weekend together for one of the childrens birthdays, including taking them to his families house together. Hes been posting stories on snapchat from his memories, mostly old ones of the the children but his posts are all either from times when they were together or of himself with quotes expressing that hes not happy. He hasnt told her that he is with someone and he knows that she wants him back. Am i wrong for feeling insecure? Link to comment
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