Izac1789 Posted October 9, 2019 Share Posted October 9, 2019 Hi all I posted previously about this.. So i was seeing a girl for a few weeks in February, and she was booked to go away travelling in March.. So when she left we carried on talking, but then she wanted to be fully single etc so we cut ties with each other and both led our own lives when she was away. Anyway, she has now been home for 6 weeks in the same city as me and we have met up and dated and it went well. However, I am now booked to also travel in 4 weeks time and will be away for a couple of months. Initially i was due to go away for a longer period of time but due to work have had to cut it to 2 months. We were originally planning on keeping it chilled until i went away and then doing our own thing once i go, but she then said her feelings are developing a lot and that she would want me to commit to a relationship with her before i go away. I said i was not 100% sure i was ready because she has only been home for 6 weeks after basically no contact for 6 months, and that i did like her but i was not in to it 100% which is what it should be to commit to a relationship when away travelling. A couple of weeks went by of texting a little and we were civil and i was in a good place but then we met over the weekend when drunk and ended up sleeping together. The next day in the moment i said i would commit to her when she asked, however i was having second thoughts on this a couple of days after so i told her i was sorry i shouldnt have said it and i cant do it right now.. She was very upset and angry with me and i feel i could have ruined what potential we had together for when i was home in a couple of months. Can anyone offer any advice or words on the situation please? Thanks in advance. Link to comment
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