skyman 1 Posted October 7, 2019 Share Posted October 7, 2019 So i have a female friend and I have a crush on her. She generally likes to text with me, but she rarely initiates first. She told me she likes a guy and she texted him twice first, but nothing more happened with him. Does it mean she doesnt want to have something more with me if she doesnt text me first? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,834 Posted October 7, 2019 Share Posted October 7, 2019 Ok, it sounds like the friendzone because of all the texting chitchat. What makes it a bit worse is her mentioning other guys. That puts this in the male-girlfriend zone and that is even worse than the friendzone. You need to stop hanging out and texting and become more indifferent. Start talking to other girls at school and get more involved in other activities and with other people.So i have a female friend and I have a crush on her. She told me she likes a guy and she texted him twice first, but nothing more happened with him. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
skyman 1 Posted October 7, 2019 Author Share Posted October 7, 2019 Well to be honest, I think she wouldnt want to be with me, so I wanted her to be with this guy and I had always started talking about him ... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 682 Posted October 7, 2019 Share Posted October 7, 2019 let me lay out some facts....Girls like attention. Guys that likes a girl give them attention. Girls take advantage of this. Girls can be emotionally invested without romantic feelings to said guy. It can look like she is interested, but she's not. That's the friends zone, and that's where you are at. An interested girl WILL make it known, and not talk about other guys. Tip: don't be friends with girls you really like. Instead you ask them out. If they say no, then you saved yourself months of wondering if she likes you or not. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,834 Posted October 7, 2019 Share Posted October 7, 2019 So don't waste your time on her, no less throw her suggestions for dating other guys. Find a girl who is into you. I think she wouldnt want to be with me, so I wanted her to be with this guy and I had always started talking about him ... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Camber 2019 135 Posted October 7, 2019 Share Posted October 7, 2019 let me lay out some facts....Girls like attention. Guys that likes a girl give them attention. Girls take advantage of this. Girls can be emotionally invested without romantic feelings to said guy. It can look like she is interested, but she's not. That's the friends zone, and that's where you are at. An interested girl WILL make it known, and not talk about other guys. Tip: don't be friends with girls you really like. Instead you ask them out. If they say no, then you saved yourself months of wondering if she likes you or not. Wow Smackie! Want to go out sometime? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kim42 68 Posted October 7, 2019 Share Posted October 7, 2019 If she told you she likes someone else it's more like a friendzone thing. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kathy679 8 Posted October 7, 2019 Share Posted October 7, 2019 Shes interested in someone else. If she was interested in you she would of said so or at least not mentioned another guy that she likes Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Honeycomb8 161 Posted October 8, 2019 Share Posted October 8, 2019 She's not interested lol. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 682 Posted October 8, 2019 Share Posted October 8, 2019 Wow Smackie! Want to go out sometime? Sorry Camber you are in the friends zone lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Camber 2019 135 Posted October 8, 2019 Share Posted October 8, 2019 Sorry Camber you are in the friends zone lol Hahahahahaha! That one made my day!!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
crazylovebug 3 Posted October 14, 2019 Share Posted October 14, 2019 I am really sorry...but she is not into you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
reinventmyself 1,014 Posted October 14, 2019 Share Posted October 14, 2019 Anytime a girl expresses any interest in another man to you, take that as a sign that she isn't interested in you romantically. People some times tell you these things just to give you the clue as to where you stand. You need to pickup on this clue. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MurphyB 18 Posted October 14, 2019 Share Posted October 14, 2019 So i have a female friend and I have a crush on her. She generally likes to text with me, but she rarely initiates first. She told me she likes a guy and she texted him twice first, but nothing more happened with him. Does it mean she doesnt want to have something more with me if she doesnt text me first? Why don't you pick up the phone and call her? Stop all this texting lark. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
semen777 1 Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 Dude, you just should get relax and forget her forever. She isn't interested in you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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