Anonymous86 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Hi, was just wondering if I’m crazy or not about this. I’m a 21 year old guy and I’ve been dating a girl, same age, for a long time now. Neither of us go out much so this has never been an issue till now. Some friends of mine from work invited me out to have a drink at a bar together. I think the issue my girlfriend is having is that I work with mostly women. The thing is, we’re talking about middle aged women married with kids here. The only girl close to my age is 26, and she’s a lesbian in a relationship. So it’s not as though there would be anything else going on with these women. If she goes out with friends all I say is “have fun, be safe, love you, etc”. But I mention going out with friends from work and she goes off on me about it. When I confront her about it, she tells me her problem is that I told her I’d never go out to a bar because it’s not my scene. Which is true, but I want to try new things. I’ve never been out to a bar with friends before. She says she’s worried about me getting drunk and doing or saying something I shouldn’t. I’ve never given her any reason to doubt me or believe I’ve been unfaithful. Now she’s saying she can’t trust me to keep my word, that I refuse to see her point of view, that I don’t care about her feelings and how would I like it if she went out and got drunk with a bunch of guys. The truth is, if she did that I wouldn’t mind because I trust her and don’t think she would ever cheat on me. So she says she doesn’t want to talk to me and that she’s gonna go find people to go clubbing with since I’m doing “whatever I want anyway.” Sorry for the long post, I just didn’t want to leave anything out here. I wanted to see if anyone had any advice/input! Thanks in advance! Edit: P.S. - I handle alcohol completely fine btw, I’m not an idiot when I’m drunk. And I’d be having a beer or two at most. Link to comment
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