Rosie9176 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I have been with the same man for a few years now. We live together with our two dog and normally have a good time together. The past week we randomly got on the subject of would the you from few years ago ( when we first got together) date me now. He tried not to be direct saying he wouldn't date himself now, but I pushed for my answer. He told me NO and I was really taken back. Now he said it's not all black and white but I know he said no off a physical appearance. There are moments where he tends to act better than me and I feel a slight putdown but nothing direct. When we got together i was about 140 and now I'm closer to 160. I'm confused and upset. I'm trying to remain positive and not HATE or feel worse about myself. I try to eat better and work on my weight. I just feel low and dont have a lot of people to vent to so here I am.Any advice or words of encouragement would be awesome. Link to comment
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