FreeGirl Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Hello all, I posted here in the Getting Back Together forum, because I want some open minded feedback. Female dumper here. I broke up with my ex of 10 months about 22 days ago. I have been in NIC (Not initiating contact)/Low Contact with him because he wanted to stay friends and I think he was heart broken from me dumping him. But so was I from his neglect. Reasons for breaking up: Neglect on his part, he kept disappearing on me, and I felt lonely in the relationship. I felt like he prioritized his hobbies over spending time with me. One day I couldn't take it anymore and I said I didn't want to be with him anymore because I felt alone in the relationship. So far for the last 22 days, its just been small talk initiated by him "hope you are well" "how are you doing" in which I reply with "I'm good, hope you are well too". Honestly though, I do not want to be friends with him. During the relationship, I felt neglected, and this small talk type of deal is driving me insane. If he wants to fix things I would be willing to be open to it. But I can't do this small talk LC anymore. What should I do? But if I should just disappear into the void, I will do that too. He initiated a conversation today with "how are you?" Link to comment
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