Bobby987 Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 Just that really, I played golf at the weekend with another dad from my daughters school. I know my ex bad mouths me because for the last year when I meet people at school they are very nice and friendly. Then I see them talking to the ex and all of a sudden they want nothing to do with me and can barely say hello at the school gates. Anyway my golfing buddy tells me the ex was at a kids party with her new boyfriend last week, after a few gin and tonics the ex spent an hour "slagging me off." Im told it made everyone uncomfortable. I didnt ask what she said because I know deep down it will just make it worse. I cannot for the life of me work out why she still wastes her energy on me. Im going to be married next year, shes had a new fella for about 6 months. honestly ? It ended badly, I tried everything I could to save the marriage but she was far more interested in "winning" and I eventually gave up. She's spent the last 5 years trying to remove me as a parent. Its getting me down, my partner and I have 4 kids between us so its not like life isnt hard enough. Its making my partner insanely angry, shes been first had witness to the lies and games over the last few years. Im really worried this is going to escalate. So far Ive just ignored it and carried on as normal, its been effective because people start to learn what shes like. But its become too much now. Any ideas on how to tackle this? I dont want the ex to know she's getting to me as she'll do it more. Link to comment
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