nirm2009 Posted September 15, 2019 Share Posted September 15, 2019 I've been with her for close to 10 months now. I'm 25 she's 20. It's been sorta rule she put on me on the very early days that she doesn't want me to text any other girl on messenger, WhatsApp, etc. etc. She's ok with me talking face to face with them but nothing cyber basically. Even my relatives, even my very close friends I had for years. All of this comes from a childhood trauma of hers ; her dad has left for another woman when she was like 8yrs old. When he was leaving, her mom has asked her "please tell him to stay!" and she hadn't been able to do that. She blames the whole thing on herself because of this. Apparently it's this childhood incident that boils down to "I shouldn't let my partner deal with any other girl" in her mind. I knew this story and I agreed on this when we got into the relationship so I don't blame her. I want to somehow get used to this. It's been pretty hard coz I've always been muchh closer to girls than boys. But I want to get used to this. Please help me tell me how I should handle this. Link to comment
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