RKO Posted September 1, 2019 Share Posted September 1, 2019 I've been single over 2 years now, since then I've had a lot of dates, and I mean a lot, a couple of them I've really liked but they've not liked me, majority I've likes initially but then just not felt like carrying it on and some I've not likes right from the outset. My issue is, without sounding dramatic is that I'm dead inside, I feel like I just don't care anymore about getting with anyone enough. All my life Ive always wanted a gf, to get married, have children etc, I mean I still want kids now but I'm at that point where I just have no interest in getting a girlfriend even though I'm going on dates most weeks, hoping that the next one I meet will change my mind. I have a great life, travel, good hobbies, good job, good family, I'm 37 and content with what I have but the whole lack of caring about having a partner is concerning. Most of my friends are settled now yet I'm still doing things and enjoying being able to do them without having to worry about anyone else such as weekend plans and travelling. I'm not sure it's because I've been single so long I can't imagine myself with anyone or its something I'm protecting myself from potential hurt. Some days I wake up and think for a few days I want to be with someome but then a few days later It feels like the worse idea ever. I just don't know what to think anymore. Link to comment
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