Foodmonster Posted August 31, 2019 Share Posted August 31, 2019 I need some help, I can't figure out if this guy I've been chatting to is actually interested or not. Our texting admittedly hasnt been great, it's still quite superficial and disjointed. He generally takes several hours or even a day to respond back claiming he's been very busy. He's a doctor so i understand they are quite busy people. There was a period where i didnt hear from him for a few days and i thought that was it. But he reached out and said that he had been quite sick with the flu. So we started chatting again. Then he disappeared for a week and again i thought it's done for good. But he reached out a few days ago and was apologetic, again claiming work has been crazy. So i thought i would give him the benefit of the doubt. However, the chats aren't going anywhere. In fact it seems worse. He doesn't respond until the next day and when he does they are quite short and no effort in trying to get to know me more or at the very least continue the flow of the conversation. I can see that he logs on to the chat app regularly throughout the day. So i cant help but wonder why he takes ages to respond. Ultimately i feel he's not really interested due to his lack of responses and minimal engagement. But then he reaches out if there hasn't been contact in a while. So then i think maybe he's just a really bad texter because if he wasn't really interested he didn't have to reach out and things would have ended. I haven't asked him directly if he's interested. Just in case he is genuinely busy and then i just end up scaring him off. Should i persevere with this and hope things pick up or should i just move on? I'm so confused. Link to comment
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