Simpleman101 Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 **We've been dating since new year, and its been great till 3 weeks ago.** I \[25 M\] have been dating Girlfriend \[25 F\] for 8 months Well to start off a little recap, im 25 and this is my first serous relationship, because i am a emotional roller coaster since i was little, i always seems to choose the most f...ed up girl and fall in love on the second date and in a month to dump me, and mostly for sometime i kept it casual one- two dates and its over.But this girl had something that kept me interested, at first we were introduced by my friend, and she started talking to me on social media, for two months we just talked and went for coffee after work just friends. On this new years eve we kissed and that's how it startedIt was fun for the first three months we had our both birthdays and had couple of events and its was interesting. May came and somehow we ended up doing the same thing everyday, she will come to my place and chill or go grab coffee after work. She rarely go out with me for drinks or with my friends for drinks, her exuse was i don't want to drink witch is fine i don't argue (she did drink but rarely and not with me, just with her friends...). If i dont plan to do something togeather she just will go home and wont say anything, ive tested that a couple of times and it was little wierd. She never showed any emotion to anything, never argued on anything, lets me have everything by my suggetion, witch drove me crazy at times, but even if discus this with her she just says i dont know lets do it your way... She never opened up to me about the problems shes facing and emotions nothing ever... 3 weeks ago we went on a 4 days techno event to city near us. We stayed at her friends apartment. The guy worked 12 hour shifts witch i barely saw him, he would come home change and go to the event with us. So we had the whole apartment to our self's. She i dont know why got pissed at me from the first day. she was pissed the next morning, also on the beach she was pissed, didnt know why at all. I tried talking but she said she had pain in her legs from the party. She was pissed the whole 4 days, even got me pissed because i didnt know what was happening. We came home all pissed at each other, i had no f...ing clue why. The next day i texted her to met me to discus what happened. I started whats up, whats the problem, what did i do wrong to be pissed at me. She just aplied i dont know i'm just pissed and have headaches..After i continue i need to full you up on before one thing. Before going to the event we planed to take vacations from work after one week from the event to go to a vacation, and to start planing where to go after we get back from the event. Three days pass by we talk but she kept ignoring me or just replying with yes or no. I insisted on meting at my place, we sit drink coffee and out of nowhere she says you changed somehow i dont know how youre strange i cant deal with this tomorow i will go at my parents for two weeks ( they live 2 hours away). I was like what about our vacation what happend, her response as before i dont know i have lot on my mind youre weird you changed, and she went home..Couple days pass by we texted mostly, because her parents dont know we date!! ( i introduced her to my parents after one month) she ignored my calls. We started arguing one night via text whats wrong with us. Her responce was i didnt do anything interesting anymore, we didnt go anywhere, we went to dinner two times in 5 months, and it all was like a routine. This was the first time she expressed her self at me EVER. So i was shocked like ok let me fix this by you coming home, so i can take you to vacation but no, i even expresed to her that i miss her and i really love her ( witch i really do ) i've been losing my mind these past week and a half. She will come home this monday i dont know what to expect, how to react when she will come home will i break up with her i dont know, i dont have experience with this. Link to comment
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