Wiseman2 3,166 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 Get to a free/low cost clinic for STD testing perhaps they can find you support groups or more comprehensive therapy until you go back to college. You recently slept with someone who has a criminal history used drugs and generally lacks integrity. Protect your physical as well as mental health no I don't have any health insurance. Hence why I'm going to get therapy for free. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 Get to a free/low cost clinic for STD testing perhaps they can find you support groups or more comprehensive therapy until you go back to college. You recently slept with someone who has a criminal history used drugs and generally lacks integrity. Protect your physical as well as mental health He didn't even care enough to use a condom, so yeah. That's pretty telling I guess. I am going to get STD testing. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,908 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 He didn't even care enough to use a condom, so yeah. That's pretty telling I guess. I am going to get STD testing. Why wouldn't YOU insist on a condom??? This not only his responsibility! C'mon, time to stop playing victim and take accountability in all areas. This includes choosing this abusive low life as a bf. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 Why wouldn't YOU insist on a condom??? This not only his responsibility! C'mon, time to stop playing victim and take accountability in all areas. This includes choosing this abusive low life as a bf. I don't know it just felt like old times. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,908 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 I don't know it just felt like old times. You should always wear a condom with a partner. What if your bc fails, you need it as a back up. Plus with his drug use and criminal history, God only knows where he has been. Please get tested. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted August 9, 2019 Author Share Posted August 9, 2019 You should always wear a condom with a partner. What if your bc fails, you need it as a back up. Plus with his drug use and criminal history, God only knows where he has been. Please get tested. Thanks for the advice. I will. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boltnrun 1,753 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 Please make sure he can't contact you. Next court date comes along and he could start the lovey dovey treatment again so you'll appear in court (and give some booty up to him). If he can't contact you he can't attempt to use you again. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted August 10, 2019 Author Share Posted August 10, 2019 Please make sure he can't contact you. Next court date comes along and he could start the lovey dovey treatment again so you'll appear in court (and give some booty up to him). If he can't contact you he can't attempt to use you again. Thank you. He already blocked me in everything. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boltnrun 1,753 Posted August 10, 2019 Share Posted August 10, 2019 Thank you. He already blocked me in everything. No...I mean YOU block HIM. Just because he blocked you doesn't mean he can't unblock you and contact you to use you again. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,908 Posted August 10, 2019 Share Posted August 10, 2019 Block him, then delete. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted August 10, 2019 Author Share Posted August 10, 2019 Block him, then delete. Done and done. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,908 Posted August 10, 2019 Share Posted August 10, 2019 Done and done. Yay!!!!! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boltnrun 1,753 Posted August 10, 2019 Share Posted August 10, 2019 That's good news. Please reach out to your family or a friend whenever you start to "miss" him or feel like you made a mistake by walking away. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,908 Posted August 10, 2019 Share Posted August 10, 2019 Always know that we are here for support. As Bolt said, also reach out to loved ones for support. You will need it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted August 10, 2019 Author Share Posted August 10, 2019 Always know that we are here for support. As Bolt said, also reach out to loved ones for support. You will need it. Well, thank you. I have been reaching out to people. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted August 13, 2019 Author Share Posted August 13, 2019 Well, thank you everyone for your advice. I have been thinking lately and I just don't think I want to be with someone who runs hot and cold like that regardless of what is going on in his life at the moment. It is very hurtful to be so dismissive like that to someone you claim to love. I understand he is a lot going on in terms of the sentencing and the pre sentencing investigation, but that doesn't mean it's okay to treat people like that and think that just saying" I love you" will fix it. I love him, but we can't be together if this is who he is going to choose to be. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirlTayl 5 Posted September 4, 2019 Author Share Posted September 4, 2019 Just wanted to update everyone. I am back in school and took the first step to getting help by making an appointment with my school's psychology clinic. I really hope this works out and I start to feel better soon. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rose Mosse 1,111 Posted September 5, 2019 Share Posted September 5, 2019 Good. I'm glad to hear this. Keep up the good work. Believe in yourself and that you deserve better. Don't let anyone else treat you like this again. Learn from your mistakes and grow from it. It makes us all stronger in the end. Leave this behind and don't speak to this person again. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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