asalways Posted August 5, 2019 Share Posted August 5, 2019 It's difficult to find actual dating details instead of hypothetical discussions, and this is a great forum for actual details. So I'm doing a journal. I crossed the path in my life where I would bend over backwards, changing myself to no end to make a woman happy, and these 2 dates were the first example of that. 8/3 - Met a girl introduced by a family friend, at a Starbucks. Did 10 minutes of general chit chat and then starting talked about hobbies, vacations, sports, but I all I kept getting were 3 word answers. In the past, I'd keep going and going, but about 20 minutes into the whole thing, I told her the standup show is over, if I'm going to perform here for your amusement, I should at least get a free coffee. That was the only time she smiled, but I was serious, and she didn't say anything, so I left. Nothing new to learn there, except if it fails, it fails, keep moving, no point in wasting time. 8/4 - Met another girl at Starbucks, this time, she was referred by a closer family friend, but similar kind of outcome, except she actually spoke more than a few-word answers. Essentially, she picked off every little thing, like telling me how can I watch Sopranos when it's so offensive. Sopranos for those who don't know is a groundbreaking never-to-be-outdone mob show by HBO which finished airing in 2007. I asked her if she knew the difference between entertainment and real life, she kept quiet. So that was that, I said thanks for your time and I left. In the past, I would have bent and wiggled into whatever concoction of a person the woman wanted to see in front of her, not this time. I made those mistakes a long time ago. I'm not looking for 1000 women, I just need one, and she'll come along :) Link to comment
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