rchubn Posted August 4, 2019 Share Posted August 4, 2019 I got out of this toxic relationship months ago. I was dumped out of the blue during a really rough time in my life with little explanation and no room to understand why or how. Dumped and instantly blocked. And then months later my ex would text me out of the blue just to see if I was still pining over him or whenever he needs emotional support. I was dumb enough to give it to him because I thought it being kind would remind him what he fell in love with before and I still cared about him but each time I would build him up and he'd be out the door again. I felt emotionally and spiritually pillaged after every encounter. He had taken the emotional support he needed and once he was whole I was discarded. I have to literally remind myself almost 6 times a everyday why he's not worth my time, why I should be glad he's gone. Now he's trying to do it again, he text me asking how I was and something is making me want to respond. A wishful part of me is like "what if he really loves me and he realized dumping was a mistake." But I know deep down he's only doing it because he wants someone to dump his sh*t on. This relationship was emotionally abusive and I'm struggling to heal my self and push forward. I was isolated from friends and family and I'm trying to rebuild my life but he keeps coming back and everytime he comes back, I let him in and he takes what he needs from me. How do I stop myself from this cycle? I didn't respond to the message. I don't know how to respond. Link to comment
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