humza12345 Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 So me and my ex started dating 6 months ago and we were extremely close. I loved her and she loved me, and I believe we balanced eachother perfectly. So this summer for the last 3 months we have been long distance from each other only seeing one another 1 weekend a month. As she is someone who suffers from anxiety and depression it has been very hard on her and she has been really sad all summer because of our distance and being at home. So 6 days ago I started noticing her behaviour being a little bit distance and sad toward me so I asked her what was wrong. She said that she is thinking of breaking up with me. We are going to be back together in the same city in 1 month, but after that I will be in a new city and only be able to see her on weekends. SHe said that even tho she loves me she is breaking up with me because she is worried that after 4 months she is going to be extremely sad only seeing me on weekends so she wants to get it over with now. I tried to get her to stay but I did not plead or beg too much and respected her decision. I have not contacted her since. She has been posting snap chat stories very often knowing ill see them. The stories are just of her doing mundane things- but she would never post anything before. I want to be with her and make our relationship work but I a, sticking very strictly to the no contact rule. But i dont know what i should do next- give her space- no contact until we are in the same city than ask her to meet up with me- or just text her? What should I do CRY! Help please. Link to comment
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