GentlemanJac Posted July 24, 2019 Share Posted July 24, 2019 My gf constantly leaves, this month, she left on the 11th, came and got clothes on the 15th, and says she's done. I am not sure if I've ever held my ground until now. But she messaged my mother who owns the house we stay. Well she told my mom that she'd no longer be here and I am not doing anything but making her leave and so after she has said that, she asked to keep her things here til she gets a place. My mom said if you're not sure if your stuff is safe, and you don't want to be with my daughter because she does all these things your telling me, why would you leave your stuff with her ? She didn't answer some chord was hit. She messaged me and twists lot of what I'm aware of mind you and acts like my mom is rushing her and she is gone at her own choice, I have rambled I apologise. She said my mom was two faced inviting her to stay at the house with me and now kicking her out. Okkkk.. I was truly upset as she in my mind plays back and forth with the kids dad; it seems like clockwork she was seen at the store the day before getting ice cream with the kids and him. I found out when my dad hesitated to let me know. I'm not certain if she is playing house or being cordial and I feel more that it's getting her cake and well eating it to. So I've packed up every bit of her things, not going to let a single memory of her and I remain. since the weeks to the 19th when this message to my mom came, i was cleaning the kids rooms and I had a idea that I am hurtin myself but I need this out of my face, to move forward. She didn't ask until yesterday 23rd, to stay a few nights while she packed her things. I am not going to lie; I was just beside myself, I said, well I'm not sure if you have your uhaul, it seems like you'd be able to save gas and time, doing it once. And I sent her pictures of her stuff, all neat and ready to go. She was pissed. Saying I have to evict her, she's got mail here, she said that I didn't care about her, I don't care it's over. Blah blah. I'm not sure but I've hesitated texting to keep distance she left. So she can deal with her situation. I have said I'd put it on the porch out front and she could get it. She said she would put me in jail and I couldn't do that. I don't want her in the house just to make this harder. She hasn't wanted to be here so why now. I guess should I listen to my mom who when I told her she said I think she knows your kind and care so you'll let her come but she'll make it to where now she's in the house and you have to evict her. My mom is probably right. I am silly to entertain the idea that we could get along let alone argue or be right back to making up just to be in the exact boat three days from now. Ugh. Any advice? I'm going to let her know that I need to get a time and date for an officer to meet her here and leave it all on the porch. I am aware I can not go to jail for that; j spoke to an officer today. But I am struggling with being so cruel. I'm sure my heart needs to be done and I will give in if I don't hold my foot in this one. Ya know. Thanks. Link to comment
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