Placidmatt Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 So here it goes. We’ve been together 5 years. We have a 2 year old son and she is 6 months pregnant. She left me 1.5 months ago. She said it was because I did t appreciate her, I took her for granted and I didn’t make her feel like a priority. She said several times she doesn’t feel like I love her or care about her. After my own reflection. I also think it’s because we gave up on trying keeping the emotional connection alive. I love this woman our family and every day we’ve been apart has made me realize how much I love her. I feel guilty for not being there now to support her through this pregnancy. She started seeing another man within days of me leaving the home, he is unattractive and from what I’ve heard not a good man. Anyways I k ow it’s likely she started things with him before I left our home. I dont suspect her of physical cheating but I’m certain there was conversations over Facebook before I ever left the house. She has pressed charges on me recently out of nowhere. Spousal abuse. She said 3 years ago we were arguing and I pushed her on our bed. Just to be clear that never happened. It’s also worth noting she has ptsd from Childhood trauma as well anxiety. She also didn’t do well in the first pregnancy and seemed to act irrationally at times. Being upset over trivial things. Pushing me away etc. I have no idea why she is doing this. I know we had problems with communication and that I wasn’t a very good spouse. I’d often make her feel alone by not making an effort to spend time with her I didn’t try to romance her. Etc I miss her and our family fiercely. I guess I was hoping for advice on how to increase the chances of us reconciling as well as insight on what might be going on in her head. Thank you all. I am not in a good Place and feel sick thinking she is cuddling with another man. That this other man is feeling my baby move as the cuddle. Link to comment
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