cmae26 Posted July 6, 2019 Share Posted July 6, 2019 I am considering dating someone with a 7 year old. I have no problems with it personally but I'm not sure if it might be more of a commitment then I am taking into account. I don't want my own kids so my Outlook is that a man with a kid is not a big deal because it's hard to find someone who doesn't want children. Every boyfriend I've been with tells me that I will change my mind someday and that they would like them. It's hard to convince anyone that I really don't. The main reasons are that is it's one of my fears to go through childbirth and the costs. Also I just don't have the overall desire to. I love kids but just don't want my own. The only reason I'm thinking about whether this is a huge deal is my friends are judging me for it. They would never date someone with kids. They act as if dating someone with kids is an absolute no and a turn off for them. They are really trying to convince me it's a terrible thing. They say like omg he has kids and that's a bad sign etc. Does anyone have any advice on dating people with kids and what is it like? Is there things I'm overlooking ? Link to comment
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