SineadIsrael Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Okay so this is going to be a speed post: My father has been on drugs all of my life. He didn’t take care of me, my mother and aunt teamed up to get the job done. I heard bad things about him from other family members but I was his only child and I never saw any wrong he was perfect and I felt like a daddies girl. Anyway He came into my life full time when I was about 22 years old, it’s been a few years now. But so far I do not like him as a person, he’s a womanizer and uses women for money. He’s sleeping with a married woman, and he goes to visit her at her and her husbands house but they both lie and say that he’s her uncle he finds that hilarious. He smokes crack in front of me, steals , he’s self centered , he’s not who he pretends to be, he also gets angry with me and kick me out whenever he feels like it about petty things (I’m in the process of getting my life on track after divorce), he accused me of lying when I had a miscarriage and never apologized when he saw my scheduled D&C papers. He never seems to care about me, we don’t have a bond, he talks bad about me to people, he has chosen women over me , he talks down on sickly people who are his age, he’s rude to my mother and tells her how bad she looks now that she’s sick and of age, he practices witchcraft , and he lies omg The list just gets soooo long. Today we got into an argument and I told him that he’s not a good father and that he never was because my aunt basically took up his slack and I see why she never had anything nice to say because you behave very evil, and he replied and said “that’s why she’s dead now”. My father is 65 years old and I am his only child, I honestly have tried my hardest to have him in my life but I’m at my breaking point. Am I making the right decision by never speaking to him again? Also I do not hold a grudge against him, and I don’t hate him. I just don’t like him as a person and I think he’s a terrible father, and a terrible person. Link to comment
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