lioil Posted June 3, 2019 Share Posted June 3, 2019 So i met this girl through mutual friends a bit back while she was visiting her family and we hit off pretty well - we met twice in 3 days. We have kept in touch for the past month since she came back and she is now considering applying for school here. One of the topics when we met here was if she were to come here how she would develop. She said she wouldn't mind the man being breadwinner but she definitely want to have her own job too, and she recognizes coming here and go to school is probably "best bet" to have a good paying job. I offered to help her with some preliminary research - timelines etc. since I went through the exact process as she would when i went back to school. I really felt we had a connection and would love to find out if she would like to go from long to short distance with visits in between BUT i don't know if asking directly is good idea especially she hasn't applied to anywhere yet. Is there a subtle way to find out from her to see her interest? Should i send her some flirting emojis and see her response? I mean if she wants to do long distance then short i am game. However, I dont want to wait ~ year then find out she's not interested but also dont want to pressure her into anything. I just felt really good about her and i actually dont mind going there and i know she will be here in a few months to visit family again. I felt we kicked off really well compared to others locally i have talked to recently. Link to comment
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