Missinghim12 Posted June 1, 2019 Share Posted June 1, 2019 We’ve been dating for 3 years since the last year of my high school. First couple of months were great though we weren’t official. After school was over, I moved to a different country. I was going through stress at that time regarding universities and kind of took it out on him. I used to childishly ignore him for days whenever I was mad at him which hurt him a lot. However we still became official and distance was never a problem for us because every year we visit each other during the summer. There had been ups and downs and we did break up once before but that only lasted for a day. This March out of the blue he just ended things with me. He even changed completely overnight. I couldn’t even believe it was real because just 2 days before the break up he told me how much he loved me. The reason he gave me was we are very different people and I don’t give him 100% love. Also he told me his visa got rejected which he was looking forward to so now he just wants to focus on his career. I begged for 2 weeks and asked him to try with me but he became so distant and started talking to this girl. Later we just stopped talking. A week later he again begins texting me bringing up my past mistakes about how much I hurt him. And then he randomly asks me when am I coming home. Then two days later he again texts me that he misses me. I never replied to any of his messages. But finally I gave in after a month passed by and we began texting again. He told me he wants to meet and fix things. But then he starts to change again. I brought up the girl he used to talk to and he told me that they did like each other but they’re just friends. Then when I bring up about fixing things he gets reluctant and says that we will meet but chances of fixing things are very less. It got to a point where all he talked about was making out and sex but he still didn’t want to fix things. And he didn’t used to reply me when he was with his friends so obviously he just used to text me when he was bored. I started pressuring him to talk about us and he seemed confused as he said I do want to talk and meet but then again he was like don’t hold onto the hope that we’ll fix things. And then he just said let’s stop talking and I agreed. He again sends me random videos a week later. Finally he went and made friends with this group of girls and I got to know that he ed about me with them when I was asking around if he was dating any of those girls. Then I just told him that I really hope karma gets you and blocked him. It’s almost going to be a week and there’s no texts from him. I didn’t block him from whatsapp as I was hoping he’d text. I don’t know what to do I mean this is the same guy who used to cry for me and used to jump on a bus to travel 12 hours just to meet me for 2 hours. What shocks me is that we had plans this summer to get away for 2 days where it’s just gonna be the two of us. How could he still break up with me? And most importantly will he come back because in a month he’ll be coming to my country. Link to comment
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