zzzz74032343 Posted May 30, 2019 Share Posted May 30, 2019 Hello everyone, I was wondering if i could get some advice here please. I met this man from online dating site. So it has been a month and we met about 3 times, first for a coffee at a pub, second -we were supposed to park my car at his place and then go to walk around the area but then he took me to his apartment as i was 1 hour late and he had to meet his friend afterwards for work discussion, third time again i went to his apartment as he finished work later than expected. He is a successful businessman who has everything including the looks, the height. The main thing for me is i guess his looks and the height, his intelligence and sensical. The third time he mentioned sex and i told him i have been calibrated for years since the last relationship and sex would make me suffer emotionally ( which i did not explain any further that i wanted to get to know him better ) We had a great time on the 3rd date as we laughed a lot. But the day after i saw him actively online dating website again looking for someone. I do really like him but i realize that for all the 3 dates , 2 of those i was the one who travelled for half an hour to see him. Therefore there has not been any investments on his side yet. I do realize that he is this highly successful man , dark , tall and handsome. Obviously he could get any woman he wants. I am looking for a meaningful and long lasting relationship and definitely i need to get to know each other well enough to feel safe for the next step I feel that he thinks i am not open to sex ( which is not the case ) which i do not know what to do next . Could you please give me some advice what i should do next. Link to comment
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