GenericUser Posted May 26, 2019 Share Posted May 26, 2019 Hello! I am new to these forums and this is my first post! So please bare with me! Ok, so here's my situation. Firstly, I don't have an extensive dating record as I have always been quite reserved and shy in the world of dating, that is, up until recently I started to improve my confidence and self esteem and now I am meeting (not a whole lot) women more regularly. I was out with some work friends at a bar and a woman approached me, we started talking and I got her number. The next day we arranged to meet up and we did, we went out sight seeing, having a good time, got some drinks, then at the end of the evening things started getting a bit more heated and I went back to her place and stayed the night. The next day we were talking for a good portion of the day as she had other things to do, as did I. The next day after that I messaged her and we started talking again, I proposed a second date if she would like to, she told me that most of the week she was busy/taken already and I understand that plans are made and cant be changed out of the blue, but she suggested that we could meet up the weekend, so I agreed also that it would be cool to meet up the weekend and go and do something fun and hang out. Now, when the weekend came I messaged her to ask where and what time shall we meet up and she told me that she forgot to message me but she had arranged other plans this day so we couldn't go out. I shrugged it off as I've only met this girl a few days ago and I don't expect to be a priority within her life so I said that's cool and for her to let me know a day when she would be available to meet up again, she said maybe the start of next week after work we could meet up but then she goes on vacation so she will let me know her standing by the end of the week. It is now the end of the week and I've not heard any word from her about meeting up. I don't want to seem clingy or too full on as I know that's my personality and it happens when I like someone, naturally I just want to see them more often. What I'm asking is, does this seem like a dead end/one night stand, the meeting was unexpected, the date after was almost perfect, lots of attraction, communication, back and forth not just one way. I even remember telling her about one of my friends who got robbed after letting someone he just met staying at his house over night and she agreed she wouldn't let someone she didn't know into her house unless she trusted that person, as I came back i'm not sure if it's because she trusted me or because she just wanted something i could give that night. Any advice? should I let things die or carry on and keep trying for that second date? Link to comment
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