ConfusedLady21 Posted May 23, 2019 Share Posted May 23, 2019 Have anyone ever asked you what you wanted in a partner? Chances are that you will run down a list of what you desire in the person you would like to be with. Well, I met this guy who has every single trait that I have ever wanted in a man. He has traits that I didn’t even know I would find desirable. I am 26, he’s a silver fox and much older than me, but I don’t care, in fact, a part of me likes that. I am completely lost in major like with him. He has been messaging me on Facebook for a few years, but the other day we decided to meet up for coffee. It was the first time I met him, his presence was so powerful. We have this odd mentor-student like relationship and he teaches me a lot of valuable lessons. He’s a well respected VP, he’s a powerhouse mover and shaker with short tolerance for BS and for some reason that makes me both nervous and excited. Truth is, he’s so cool to me and I am not as interesting as I would like to be. I have aspirations of owning my own business. I am a powerful performer at work and I am an achiever and I think that might have been what attracted him to me in the first place (I am trying to offer more than just looks, those fade). He’s constantly out doing something productive, but I am so quiet and timid at times that I stay behind closed doors for the most part, I am trying to break that habit. He inspires me to become a better person. To push myself, to get back in the gym, to get more out of life. He’s busy living his life that I would like to be busy living mine. I am so worried that he will grow bored of me. I realize that I am no longer in this wild naturally sexy phase that I was in in my late teens early 20s. Now, I feel like I reverted back to being odd. I can dress sexy and look it, but I’m nervous to act that part. I am corny as all get out and can use some help on my jokes.. I live under a rock and I don’t know too much about TV shows or pop culture references. He’s just everything I’ve been wanting in a man for years. He’s dominate, take charge and confident. A confident man wants his woman to be equally as confident, but Im not there.. And I am more nervous than anything that someone that I am into SO MUCH is talking to me every day. Any tips for a nervous timid girl dating an older man? He’s not trying to take advantage of me. I’m mature enough to know, I’m not gullible. I’d like to keep him around and I am open to any advice I can get. Link to comment
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