njb32519 Posted May 22, 2019 Share Posted May 22, 2019 Me and my Ex have been dating for 2 years. We are both 24. She wanted to break up because she wanted to figure out her life for herself. (A week before Me and her family were going to Greece, I was also going to propose to her.) She has job offers in other states and misses her friends. Our relationship had also gotten stale, i was lazy, depended on her love to keep me happy and was kind of just coasting through the relationship. I didn't argue at all. I told her i respect her decision, I love you and I hope you reconsider and told her to go to Greece with her family and friends and find yourself. five days without contacting her i told her I loved her and missed her. She said," I love you and miss you too but I need to figure things out for myself." I then told her that I would like to meet when she got back which is in another 7 days. She said that's fine. When we meet I want to show her that in this time apart I have focused on making myself better and that I want each of us to spend more time with our friends so I dont keep her from them, communicate better, and show her examples and proof. Depending on how this plays out If she is willing to give it another shot I want to tell her what my plan to propose was but that I still have a back up plan. If it doesn't go well I want to give her the ring because it causes me pain to look at it and maybe when she looks at it she will see love and reconsider? Link to comment
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