Lilly91 Posted May 21, 2019 Share Posted May 21, 2019 I was with my recent ex for 3 years but knew each other for longer. We have a very good relationship but later it got toxic. He would be jealous and accuse me of cheating all the time and blame me for not loving him enough, not giving enough attention. He would consistently come see me everyday and at one point I asked for space because I felt like I couldn’t breathe. He became mentally and physically abusive to me but he would cry and say he would never do it again and then months later, he would. I left him last Summer because he attacked me and I couldn’t take it. I went away and he would call and say sorry and I was not having it. He used another number saying i’m In Spain, I would like to meet u. I knew it was him but I called him saying who this and he was like oh you moved on. So I come back to the Uk and his consistently calling me and saying I want u back. I give in and forgive him. He started becoming cold and changed and I left him a few Times but got back together. He attackee me at work 3 months ago because he was jealous over a customer. I recently found out that he got married in November whilst he was with me and he got to know the girl when I was away. He blamed me and said I didn’t love him enough, I am going to leave her but I married her for visa reasons because he had issues here. He kept saying she’s nothing to him, I am his world. He consistently kept lying and messi g my head up. He made me believe it’s my fault for him doing this. Imessaged the girl and she called me a jealous ex. I showed her photos and proof and she said she would never leave him and she asked him but he chose her. ( never wanted her to leave him but I wanted to show her the truth). He changed his photo on photo of him all dressed up without a care in the world. I feel so hurt and lied to. His made me think it’s my fault. And what hurts the most is the girl saying I am a jealous ex and despite everything he chose her and she would never leave him. He used me for months. I feel so down, I dong know how to get over this Link to comment
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