Auschick Posted May 18, 2019 Share Posted May 18, 2019 Hello So 15 years ago I met a guy that would become one of my best friends for life... We were FWB in our 20s ...during this I fell in love with him, we have lots in common, we travelled the world together....life lead us down seperate paths..I got over him and met someone else.. I moved from the UK to Australia 11 years ago..during this time he met someone else who is still with now...we have always stayed in contact and emailed just as friends... My relationship didn't work out and i have been single for 4 years.....year before I lost my mother and things have been tough, my own health has detoriated and I have no interest in having a relationship, I can't endure anymore heartache... I havent had the best of times last few years.. Last year we just started talking more and more and we are now back to FWB stage... I'm confused ...he will never answer anything personal ....am I having a midlife crisis? Should I just go with the flow and not worry about what it all means? Do I actually mean more to him than just a friend? He has never wanted me to be his girlfriend and never will and there are differences between us I know a relationship wouldn't work and I reallly don't want one! I'm set in my ways and love living by myself...! He tells me he wants to hang out, chat for hours, go out for drinks...it's not all about sex.. He would never say I'm pretty, he says I'm attractive.... Do I mean anything special to him or is he just filling the void / boredom in his life? When I had a boyfriend before he was jealous as...but he never 100% wanted me... I know this is dangerous territory for many reasons but then I think...life is too short, he makes me happy and we enjoy the same things so maybe I should enjoy it until it fades out again? Opinions would be welcome....anyone been in a situation where things fire up again after so many years? Link to comment
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